You may have wandered around at a play party—let alone a non-kink event—wishing you knew who shared or complemented your desires. Gay and bisexual men in the 1970s developed a system to reduce this uncertainty: the hanky code.
The Hanky Code
Welcome! Plus, some basic kink terms defined
Welcome to my blog! I’ll have posts on kink, design, and kinky design that aim to entertain and/or educate, as well as news and events in the San Francisco Bay Area kink scene. An extensive event calendar is here.
You may already have years in the kink world, but you may also be just starting out, or even exploring whether kink—in whatever amount and flavor—is for you. You may encounter new words, or words used in a different way, which can be confusing.
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